There are three stages of attraction, and it is very important that you go through all three, IN ORDER.
1. Attraction
2. Comfort
3. Seduction
Now, the reason that it is important to go through each of these stages is because if you skip one, than you are going to be labeled as something.
For example, lets say that you skip stage one, and go to stage two. This is where you are going to make the girl feel good and comfortable around you. Doing this will easily drop you into the "lets just be friends" or "Nice guy" category.
Let's say that you skip the first TWO stages, and go directly to stage three. This is very dangerous, because the girl has not built attraction to you, and they aren't comfortable with you. This will drop you into the "creepy guy" category. Chances are they are going to just see you as another guy hitting on them.
Next, there is the guy that does get attraction from the women. However, he skips over the second step, and goes straight to the third step of seduction. Now, this girl has not built rapport with the guy, and she does not feel comfort with him, so he is now looked at as a "player".
The final common mistake that men make is probably the worst. Some men develop the attraction. Then they even make the girl comfortable, but they never cross that hump into the third stage of seduction. So now, the women has this guy that she is attracted to, but he is afraid to seduce her. THIS IS BAD. Women, believe it or not, want to be seduced, they just don't want men to know it, and they don't want men to jump straight to it.
So, as you can see, the only real option that you have with these stages is to go through EACH stage, and in order. You can't go from end to beginning, or middle to end. You MUST start at stage one, and go to stage three. Now, be mindful that some of these stages do not take very long to go through. You could easily build attraction and comfort in a matter of hours, or even minutes. However, it is imperative that you go through each of these steps if you want women to really like you.
Jake has been studying human behavior for years, and has many proven ways of approaching women and getting into a relationship. To learn more techniques, visit Jakes blog at http://www.meetingwomen101.blogspot.com
Thursday, March 13, 2008
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