Thursday, March 13, 2008

Dating Tips For Men And Women - Leverage The Luck Of The Irish To Become Lucky In Love!

When you speak of the Irish, talk often turns to luck. According to Wikipedia, this can be a tongue and cheek discussion of luck, since the Irish have fallen victim to many woes over the centuries. Another entry cited that when you catch a Leprechaun, you'll get a piece of gold - which certainly would be lucky!

So how can you leverage the good luck of the Irish to turn your dating luck around? Let's base the love-life shift on the shamrock's three heart-shaped leaves:

1) Begin thinking of yourself as lucky in love
Lucky people usually think of themselves as lucky which further promotes more good luck. They expect to be lucky. So how would your love-life change if you felt lucky in love? You might feel more attractive to the opposite s*e*x. You might not fear rejection as much. You might imagine suddenly finding the love of your life. Not such a bad idea huh?

This concept mirrors "The Secret" and the Universal Law of Attraction which states "Like attracts like." What that really means is that positive thinking attracts more positive thinking. And believing you are lucky in love will attract energy that makes you - you've got it - lucky in love. What have you got to lose?

2) Follow the rainbow to find the Leprechaun's pot of gold
Or the romantic partner you've been seeking. Hmmm. How does that apply? Well, rainbows seem like a bit of magic from the Universe and Leprechauns certainly have a magical quality. So can you stretch to believe that meeting the right person for you is part of the magic of the Universe and bound to happen? People find love every day. Why not you?

Personally, on my dating journey, sometimes what pulled me through the rougher times was reminding myself that everything has a purpose (even if we don't know it.) So there must be a reason I'm doing all this to find a partner. And I chose to believe that the reasons behind it all , the good and the bad, were the lessons I needed to learn to FIND HIM. Holding onto that faith tightly, kept me going when I felt down. I got to the point where I knew undeniably that I was going to find the right partner for me. And I did. If I can do it, I know you can too.

3) Get your own piece of gold to remind yourself that you are lucky
If you did meet a Leprechaun who rewarded you with a piece of gold, you'd probably never let go of it right? Well, what if you found your own talisman to remind you of your good fortune? You could get something like :

One of those popular necklaces with a horseshoe (for more good luck of course)
A small coin stamped with lucky symbols to carry with you (Celtic stores carry them)
Or find a lucky pebble and maybe even paint it gold
The actual item doesn't matter. What does matter is that you find something that speaks to you about your lot in life and turning it around to the lucky soul you deserve to be - and truly are.
Take your luck into your own hands! Allow yourself this new belief of being lucky in love. Who knows where it will take you but expecting to be lucky in love, will definitely attract more luck to you. Here's to getting lucky - in love and life!

To get a f*r*e*e list of 50 Ways to Find Your Lover visit http://www.NeverTooLate.biz Check out the book MANifesting Mr. Right: It's Never Too Late to Find the Love You Want by Dating Coach and expert Ronnie Ann Ryan at MANifesting Mr. Right And for a Delightful Dose of Dating Advice, read her blog

1 comment:

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